This is probably the most important of my House Rules. It sounds almost absurd, like it should be a given, but you might be surprised at how many people don't really do this in their daily lives. I know I was definitely guilty of this in my own relationship with my loved ones. I learned my lesson the hard way. Treat your loved ones like people you like, dare I say it, like friends! Be kind and considerate, always. Choose your words carefully, and cherish your time with them. Another thing- if you get the urge to kiss them/hug them/hold their hand, etc...Just do it! Don't hold back your tokens of affection. That one thoughtful gesture that seems so small, could mean a world of difference in how the receiver (and the giver!) feels about your relationship. Kind words and actions are keystones of happy, healthy relationships.
My husband scrawled this on the wall of the chalkboard painted bathroom wall of a place we went to with our kids-it was a just a little gesture but it meant a lot... |
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